Who Am I & How Did I Get Here

Who Is Michelle?

I am Michelle Cox a wife, mother and writer.  I write because I have an urge to share my experiences with other women who hopefully garner wisdom from what I share.  I believe that each of us have a destiny (a predetermined future) which resonates in our hearts and mind and when we are stopped from fulfilling that call, we adopt things that either stagnate our growth or prevent us from going forward.


What Qualifies Me To Help

Nothing in the traditional sense.  And what I mean by that is - I don't have a psychology degree or certificate that "proves" I'm able.  However, I've participated in the school of life and have learned some hard truths about living.  Whether one agrees with my own observations or not is not for me to push; rather, I must be true to the voice in my heart.

I won't go into the gory details of my past, but will share a general overview.  I didn't grow up with my father and for most women who have experienced this, you understand the impact of not having a father figure in your life.  My mother was an alcoholic and had men in-and-out of her life while I lived with her.  Some of these men, along with my mother, sexually abused me.

At the age of 11 I was placed in a foster home which changed the direction of my life.  I grew up in a great environment that provided stability, consistency and great experiences.  I graduated from college, had children, owned businesses and am here today.  Although I grew up in a good home, the foundation of my early childhood affected the fundamental beliefs about myself.

My Mission

It's only good ju-ju to share what you have (whether a little or a lot) and so it is my mission to share the things that have helped turn my life around.

My primary focus is to reach women who have made the decision to end self-destructive behavior and thoughts.  These women have experienced enough drama and have made the changes necessary to take control and manifest the best vision of themselves.

In this transition, support is needed and although most women in this phase of change are not in critical need, they are in need of inspiration to help them re-build a strong foundation.  We all need support in different areas of our lives and I know that what I have learned, I can share.

What You Can Expect

I'm open to any question, topic, or support that is needed.  I only know that I must start a dialogue.  So please feel free to contact me, comment on what I've written (whether you agree, don't or have additional insight).  This is for women who have the courage to create the best vision of who they are.